I woke up early this morning, not because I had to get a turkey in the oven or had a lot of cooking to do, but because I just woke up thinking about today.
I am spending today at my mother-in-law's, a home that has welcomed me since I was in college and arrived weekends with my laundry. Betty has welcomed me as a daughter from day one. I am so thankful for that. Twenty-three years later is it still a place of comfort and home. What a blessing!
My mom and sister are spending today (well, this entire week) at my aunt and uncle's house. I remember many delicious Thanksgiving meals at my aunt's house, fires crackling in each fireplace, old farmhouse holidays at its finest. But not this year. My mom's sister Sue has Alzheimer's and her husband is in failing health. It is time for them to move into an assisted living home, a choice that was not easy to make for either of them. Today will not be a day filled with the smells of cooking and sounds of family. Instead, my aunt will ask the same questions again and again, becoming more angry as her anxiety rises. My uncle will try to pack and prepare for their move tomorrow. My mom and sister will try to help both of them as they make this transition. I am thankful that my aunt and uncle will soon be living in a safer place where they can truly find rest and care. I am also thankful that my mom and sister are able to be there with them.
With my mom and sister busy ministering and caring for Sue and Billy, my dad is home by himself today. He said he had several invitations to Thanksgiving dinner but will likely stay home in the quiet. He will enjoy some smothered venison steak and watch football at his leisure. I am thankful that he is able to enjoy today, that he will have food he loves and a comfortable chair to sit in.
Soon, this home will be filled with cousins and other relatives. More noise than than our ears can handle. More movement and crowd and joy and fellowship. More food and food and food. We are blessed with family, blessed with God's provisions, blessed with love. This year, I am so aware of how different it could be, and I thank God for what he has given me.
Thank you, Lord, for saving my soul.
Thank you, Lord, for making me whole.
Thank you, Lord, for giving to me
Thy great salvation so rich and free.
Amen.
16 years later….
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