Thursday, October 21, 2010

A Year of Family Traditions

The holidays are quickly approaching, and that has me thinking about Family Traditions. I put this list together a few years ago when giving a presentation on traditions. Our family has tried most of the things on this list. Some are now traditions. Some did not take. The great thing about family traditions, they're a choice, not an obligation.

New Year's Day
  • Set family goals/resolutions for the year
  • Look at scrapbooks/photo albums from the last year
  • Eat black eyed peas
  • Watch football

Valentine's Day

  • "I love you" Week - do little special things for each other each day leading up to Valentine's
  • Make Valentines together for friends and family
  • Heart shaped food - pancakes, sandwiches, cookies, etc.

Easter

  • Make overnight cookies that tell the Easter story
  • Make confetti eggs
  • Easter Story Eggs
  • Egg hunt

Spring

  • Visit Dallas Blooms at the Dallas Arboretum
  • Pictures in the blue bonnets
  • Welcome spring walk

Memorial Day

  • Put out an American Flag
  • Make cards and care packages to send to troops
  • Have a cook out with friends & family

Summer

  • Take a family trip
  • Spend evenings outside
  • Catch fireflies
  • Plant a garden each family member gets to pick a vegetable to plant
  • Go on a summer rain walk
  • Go pick blueberries

July 4th

  • Go to local Independence Day Parade
  • Cook out with friends & family
  • Go watch fireworks (or stay in & watch the Washington, DC fireworks on t.v.)

Fall

  • Go to the state fair
  • Go to the zoo
  • Visit the Dallas Arboretum
  • Go to a pumpkin patch
  • Go on a nature walk & collect leaves
  • Do leaf rubbings
  • Go to a fall festival together
  • Collect food for local food pantry

Thanksgiving

  • Pull the wishbone
  • Watch the Thanksgiving Day Parade
  • Say a special prayer
  • Share favorite recipes with friends
  • Light "Thank You" candles
  • Go to a shelter and serve dinner
  • Make a Thank You wreath by having everyone write down what they are thankful for on a fall leaf shape and attaching them to a grapevine wreath
  • Have a posterboard up near the door the week before Thanksgiving and have everyone (even guests) write something they are thankful for everytime they come into the house.

Christmas

  • Picture with Santa Claus
  • Have an Advent calendar to count down the days til Christmas
  • Write letters to Santa
  • Get a personal elf
  • Go to a Christmas tree farm and cut down a fresh tree
  • Watch Christmas specials on t.v. (Be careful, not all are appropriate for young children)
  • Make ornaments
  • Go to Christmas shows at church or in the community
  • Visit McKinney Square for Dickens of a Christmas
  • Have a Tree Trimming Party
  • Get a new Christmas book each year
  • Write a letter to each child from Santa recognizing growth & accomplishments during the year
  • The Three Gifts - each child gets three significant gifts, one from Santa and two from Mom & Dad, reminding them of the gifts the wisemen brought to Jesus.
  • In early December, go through toys and books with kids to pick out items to donate to a shelter. Take kids with you to drop off the donation.
  • Pick an Angel Tree child the same age as your child and let your kid do the shopping
  • Attend a Christmas Eve service
  • Go look at Christmas lights
  • Make setting out the Nativity scene an event
  • Buy a special ornament for each family member each year
  • Listen to Christmas music all month long
  • Read the Christmas story from the Bible
  • Have an Advent wreath at home and light a new candle each week
  • Keep a memory book

Birthdays/Gotcha Days

  • Fill the day with the child's favorite activities
  • Decorate the cake together
  • Have a special plate for the birthday meal
  • Give a birthday minute kiss
  • Say a blessing prayer
  • Tie a ribbon on a tree or have a sign for the neighbors to see

Special Meals

  • New Years - black eyed peas
  • Super Bowl Sunday - Chili
  • Birthdays - birthday kid's favorite meal
  • 4th of July - Anything on the grill
  • Christmas Eve - tamales & tortilla soup
  • Christmas morning - waffles
  • Family reunion - barbeque

Any Time/All the Time

  • Sing a good morning song
  • Read bedtime stories
  • Say bedtime prayers
  • Ask "What was the best part of the day?"
  • Messages in chalk on the driveway or sidewalk
  • Great big hugs and itty bitty hugs
  • One-on-one dates with Mom or Dad
  • Date night for Mom & Dad
  • SHMILY's (See How Much I Love You)
  • Decorate the house for each season/holiday/celebration

So, what's your favorite Family Tradition?

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